Someone posted an old story about the famous American actor Gregory Peck online years ago. Gregory Peck and his friend were waiting in a long line for a table at a busy Los Angeles restaurant one night.
They had been waiting for some time. The diners were taking their time eating and talking, and new tables weren’t opening up very fast. They weren’t even that close to the front of the line.
Peck’s friend became impatient and said to Peck, “Greg, why don’t you tell the manager who you are? He will recognise you and let us in.” Gregory Peck responded saying, “No. If you have to tell them who you are, then you aren’t.”
What a great wisdom! If you have to tell people who you are, then you really aren’t that famous.
The Pharisee in today’s story in Luke’s gospel apparently had never learned that lesson. He prayed, “Thank you, God, that I’m not greedy or dishonest like other people here. I fast twice a week and give a lot of money to the temple.”
Luke described his praying scene this way, “The Pharisee stood apart and prayed with himself. It’s like saying, “Hey God. You know me. I’m on your side.” It was mostly him bragging about how good he was. He was basically advertising himself to God. When Luke described that he prayed with himself, I think he meant to say: ‘he prayed to himself’.
The tax collector, on the other hand, stood far away and wouldn’t even look up at the sky. Beating his chest, he prayed, “God, have mercy on me. I’m a sinner!'” He knew who he was. He knew that God knew who he was. His prayer wasn’t about showing off. It was more like admitting his wrongs and asking for God’s kindness and mercy.
I’m wondering how we would usually initiate our prayers. How do you go about your communication with God in prayer? Would that be the Pharisee’s way or the tax collector’s?
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